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Confronting Resistance to Change: "Why Are They Avoiding the Reality of the Situation and Lying to Me?"

15/9/2025

 
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This article was published in August 2025 by the Chartered Inst. of Management Services.  Here is a summary of the paper. If you would like a full copy send me an email. to [email protected]

Resistance to change is a common and inevitable challenge in both personal and organizational contexts, often rooted in fear, uncertainty, and entrenched behaviors. Effective change management requires understanding the sources of resistance, fostering trust, and employing strategic approaches tailored to individual and cultural differences.

Resistance is inevitable:

Resistance to change can arise from various sources including management, staff, and organizational culture, manifesting as unconscious bias, self-deception, or active opposition. It must be anticipated and addressed for change to succeed. 


Continuum of resistance:

Resistance ranges from unconscious bias and denial to deliberate falsehoods, complicating the change process and requiring nuanced responses. 

Potential self-deception, with trust and honesty being critical for progress. Questions like “Why are you lying to me?” reflect deeper fears and the need for transparency. 
Strategies for personal change: Aligning words and actions, practicing self-honesty, openness, emotional expression, and learning from setbacks help build trust and facilitate personal transformation. 


Organizational culture factors:

Leadership vision, history, culture, decision-making processes, bureaucracy, structures, and team dynamics all influence resistance and must be considered in change strategies. 

Overton Window application:

The Overton Window concept helps shift organizational perceptions from rejecting to accepting change by gradually introducing ideas, reframing narratives, forming alliances, fostering learning, and adapting based on feedback. 


Building trust in organizations:

Transparent communication, shared vision, matching actions to promises, managing emotional responses, learning from setbacks, and consistency are vital to reducing resistance and promoting acceptance.


Viewing resistance as opportunity:

Resistance provides valuable feedback that can refine change strategies, build stronger teams, and support sustainable change through patience, openness, and compassionate leadership. 


Key skills for change agents:

Effective change agents require vision creation, emotional intelligence, persuasion, relationship building, resilience, analytical skills, project management, facilitation, cultural competence, and lifelong learning to navigate resistance and complexity. 


Partial commitment reality:

Full commitment to change is rare initially; change agents must begin progress with partial buy-in and cultivate broader support over time.

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    Philip Atkinson is a strategic advisor, trainer, mentor and author of books and articles on organizational change and leadership

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